At my last doctor’s visit with my nephrologist I learned my kidney function had slightly improved and I didn’t need my transplant in December, as had been discussed. I was elated. That meant I had a window of opportunity to book a flight to the Treasure State for Christmas with my family!
So, December 14, I flew out of Newark, New Jersey to Big Sky country. My daughter, Nicole, and four-year-old grandson, Finn, came to pick me up in Billings. They arrived shortly after my plane landed meeting me in the baggage area. I was facing the luggage carousel when Finn came bounding up to me with his auntie following. Leaping into my open arms he gave the most endearing and enthusiastic greeting “Grandma” I’d ever heard melting my heart on the spot. The hug that followed instantly erased the months of waiting I’d agonized over at not being able to visit my family.
It’s now several days since my arrival, and I am sitting in a comfy chair next to the wood stove at my daughter Lesa’s house, writing this blog. I’ve been sleeping out in “the cottage” at the back of the property across from the chicken coop. As dawn breaks two plump hens softly cackle outside my window. Sometimes, Finn comes out to tell me, “Grandma, time to get up”. I don’t know when I’ve been so happy!
Each morning on the way into the house for my morning coffee, I open the hen house door to gather the eggs. I’d not had that experience since I was a young girl staying overnight with my great-grandmother, Flora May Swofford. It was as fun in 2012 gathering eggs as it was in 1955.
Being a grandmother has got to be the most wonderful experience in the world. Every grandmother is keenly familiar with the unbridled joy and thrill of watching grandchildren grow. And, of the incredible manner these little tykes have of communicating what’s on their minds. People told me how great it is being a grandparent but one can’t really comprehend the mystery and magic until they are one themselves.
And now, as I’ve settled in for the duration of my visit with my daughters and family I’m savoring each day and each interaction with Finn, the little guy, and his big brothers who afford me blessings of their own.
I find life truly exciting at this stage in my life. Everything becomes an adventure. This trip has even been one of further discovery as I’ve learned more about myself and my family. Christmas morning will surely bring further blessings as we celebrate the gift the birth of Christ brings!
